I’m not the biggest fan of Shel Silverstein’s “The Giving Tree.” Like a lot of kids, I bonded more thoroughly with his now-classic illustrated collections of quirky verse.
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Also, for the record, my favorite Silverstein book was “Uncle Shelby’s ABZ Book,” a parodic primer in which Silverstein encouraged his readers to skip school, send him money from their parents’ wallets, and notice that “ink” sounds like “drink.” That was more my speed. Don’t get me wrong: I didn’t hate “The Giving Tree.” I was sort of indifferent to it.
Some People Really Hate “The Giving Tree”
They hate the way the boy returns again and again to the tree, asking first for companionship and then for money and then for lumber. She gives him everything of herself until (SPOILERS!) nothing’s left of her but a stump. Which he sits on. The end.
Some object to the way the tree is magnanimous to the point of self-destruction, and the way the boy never gives her anything in return. He seems like a jerk; she seems like a patsy. This is one of our 101 favorite picture books?
But consider: what if the boy is a jerk? And the tree is a patsy? And that’s just the way the story’s supposed to be?
It’s hard to let go of our idea that literature is supposed to impart moral, spiritual and behavioral lessons. We think characters are supposed to be admirable and likable — or, at least, if they start out flawed, they get better.
Modeling virtue and growth is among literature’s purposes, but it’s not its only purpose. Sometimes characters behave badly because it’s entertaining, or because that’s how the world works sometimes, or because it’s sad. Books, especially for young readers, can be an opportunity to practice feeling sad. Or mad, or complicated.
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And once you start looking around, you notice there are lots of picture books about characters who are dumb or wrathful or selfish or annoying – people no one aspires to be.
The (Un)Happy Ending
Once I started thinking about the reasons that people dislike “The Giving Tree,” I realized there’s actually a lot that I like about “The Giving Tree:” the fable-like storytelling; the elegant, kinetic simplicity of its black-and-white drawings. But I also love the way its final assertion – “the tree was happy” – feels like it may not be true.
Because also consider: an article in The New Yorker reports that Silverstein hated happy endings. And when describing “The Giving Tree,” he said, “It has a pretty sad ending.”
Besides, don’t forget he’s the same person who unleashed “Uncle Shelby’s ABZ Book” on the world. So whatever he was trying to do with “The Giving Tree,” it probably wasn’t entirely warm and fuzzy.
What is the 101 Picture Book Challenge?
The 101 Picture Book Challenge is for anyone at any age. Librarians hand picked the titles on the list which includes classics, new titles and everything in between.
To get started, register online. You can track your progress online or if you prefer a paper log booklet, pick one up at your neighborhood Library. The books are organized into categories but you can read the books in any order and at your own pace. When you read all 101 titles, you earn a free picture book (while supplies last).
This is the latest in a series of blog posts exploring some of the things we love about these books.